Don't Drown in a Sea of Limiting Beliefs, When

You Can Soar With the Eagles!

"I don't deserve to have..."

"If only they knew what I'm really like, they wouldn't like (admire, trust) me."

I'll be all alone if I succeed in ..."

"I never get what I want."

Are you drowning in a sea of limiting beliefs?  Beliefs such as the ones listed above?  Perhaps some of the above or similar thoughts flit through your mind every so often--but you don't really admit to them.  If you want change and more choices in life then you will need to change your beliefs and your behavior.  "If you do what you always did, you get what you always got!"

 Your belief's influence and mold your behavior and yet many people have some limiting beliefs that stop them from achieving their goals.  Beliefs are views about yourself, others and the world that determine the decisions you take and the way you behave in everyday situations.  The person with the most flexibility in thinking and behavior has the best chance of succeeding.

     Ron (not his real name) came in to see me because he could not sustain a nurturing relaitonship.  Women were always taking advantage of him and his good nature.  He was the person who always gave and he received very litt.e  We worked together with NLP and he went through some childhood experiences where healways had to entertain the other children in elementary school.  He would get them laughing by being the class clown.  As we continued in some ego-strengthening exercises, he realized that he could change his belief system.  "I am worthwhile!  I do deserve to have a really good relationship!"  His voice and posture changed.  He was able to change his beliefs--and now he believed that he was worthwhile and deserved a good relationship.  Soon afterwards he started a new relationship that was mutually nurturing.

Beliefs are a self-fulfilling prophecy!  There are beliefs of excellence--beliefs that empower you to act and behave in a way that releases your potential and allows you to express the real you.  Successful people succeed because they BELIEVE that they can.

What would you be like if you believed...

   "I deserve the best!"

   "I can succeed in my dreams!"

   "When I succeed, I'll have close relationships with other successful people."

     The magic of NLP is that you can change your beliefs so that you can build your own set of beliefs to support the way you want to be.  Instead of drowning in a sea of limiting beliefs, you can choose to soar with the eagles!